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UnConditional LOVE?

Why do we always feel this never-dying need for Happy Endings?

 Why do we always expect haan bhai, movie kaisi bhi ho end mai to hero-heroine ne saathme aana hi hai?

Why do we always think that yes, we are going to have a happy-ending in our life too just like the dumb Bollywood movies?

 First, you do not know when the climax scene of your life is going to come and secondly, your life is not a Bollywood movie!

We all have to make our mark. That is exactly the fuel that ignites in us the desire to do better each day. Then when it comes to love, why do we force ourselves to believe in something so pure just by the looks of it in the movies or the books? Those things are fictional. I mean, you may or may not fall in love at first sight. You may find someone attractive years later and your first meet can be an intense argument. Why are you forcing yourself or expecting that your first year of college is exactly when you are supposed to meet your better-half and that’s that! It is not necessary! Love is not measured by days, my friend!!! You can fall for someone yesterday and marry him today. It is okay.

But this one is not about that, this one is about the love stories that did not have a happy ending. We have all dated someone or the other or maybe are waiting for the perfect person to come along. We may have ended on a good note with our exes or maybe we still feel the urge to stab them in the back. This post is not about that either.

But my friend, what if you fall in love in the most unfavourable times with the least expected person? What do you do then? Say that it was not love?
No! Not every love is meant to be pursued my dear! Not every love story is meant for a happy ending! Not every love ends with ‘happily ever after’! But when these things don’t happen; why do we start doubting love? Maybe their love was not pure? Maybe they were just infatuated? Maybe you were blind for each other? Stop calling it names!!! The two people who existed in that story know what they shared and why they could not have a happy ending.

Lets suppose! You are above 30 and still not in a successful marriage and then you find this adorable lady who is just a visitor in your country and you spend happy 15 days with her after which she goes back and never returns. So are those good days worthless? You felt love in the purest form it could exist, still you could not make it yours forever, and you end up feeling guilty.

This is what is wrong with us. We keep on forgetting that our life is not a movie or a novel with a destined happy-ending. We forget that not every love story is meant to be consummated. Not every story  is meant to be true. Not every person you develop feelings for is going to be your ‘happily ever after’.

I think it is time we stop calling ‘love’ bad faith just because it couldn’t last forever. Be happy that you had this encounter with love and for all those good memories it left you with. Those are the days you live for.

Also, I forgot greeting you guys before so heyyyy!!! Fall in love and break your hearts! Because feeling something so pure just doesn’t happen that easily.x