Aarvi Writings

                                             Shshhh its all about that time of the month…!!! Ohh wait.. Did I say it out loud? Oh crap! Should I Be worried?? Haha now with the GST I guess we all should. Ohh am I rude? Disobedient? Against the new Government? Yes, judge me all you could but being a normal human being who belongs to the feminine gender its pretty normal and acceptable for me to freak out and freak the rest up too. So here’s an addition to all the previous posts that you have constantly been scrolling through on your screen. Do we want India to progress? Yes. Do we want to see our nation become a superpower? Yes Do we feel proud while representing India at all local, national and international levels? Yes Do we support Swaccha Bharat Abhiyaan and try our best to follow it and encourage the rest to do it to? Yes Is 12% GST on sani...

Hello everyone and hope you are having a good pleasant day and loads of positive wishes and stuff to you. So lets just cut the chase and jumping right to the main topic. This post is going to let you know a little thing that every parent tends to do and the reason why it is wrong. We all know or have experienced how much joy the feeling of parenting a child gets. The never ending desire of being there always for them and getting them everything they wish to have in their dreams. The parents feel that its their duty to get them the stuff every stereotype girl or guy should have. Like if you have a baby boy, you give them the stuffed animals and maybe some cars or rubber balls but if she’s a girl you would get her dolls and tea sets and all the typical girly stuff.Well that all is acceptable but in the end you end up getting her fairy tales which is something horribly wrong! Yes, I am a girl and my big,thick book of fairy tales was ,is and will always be something very, very dear t...

Hello everyone! I guess you guys know me quite well!! Or many of you might have even forgotten me because its been 5 years since I was in the headlines of all the local and national newpapers. These five years have been so nice and its so soothing up here when you know there are people down there fighting and shouting their voices out specially for you. Okay, since it seems that you don’t remember me well enough! I’ll take you all for a flashback and tell you my story which probably the newspapers and Wikipedia might have already told you! Five years back and a shiver down my spine! I am a girl! Yes, I was born in this big, kind family where each individual of family loved me and I loved them back. I was Daddy’s girl ( Well every girl is but I wasn’t my daddy’s burden. I was more of his pride). I always admired the way my dad was so hardworking just to get my brothers and me a proper schooling. He worked two shifts in a day just to earn more and get us educated. He never need...

We live in a country where The Constitution guarantees equal rights for all the citizens but when it comes to putting these laws into reality - WE SUCK. Yes, we do suck. I mean, in a world where people are only bothered about feminism and male chauvinism, we conveniently forget that there are issues more significant than these. There are issues dealing with those silent souls present in the non-human animals and elements. There are issues in treating people who are neither feminists nor possessing male ego. The Transgenders <3 (Yes, many of you refers to them as chakkas ! which is gross💢) I know many of you wouldn't even wish to continue reading this anymore after seeing the image; those who do, you still have a golden heart. We treat transgenders so badly, we treat them worse. Moreover, we spoil their name by giving them names.How effortlessly we speak,"Kya "chakke" ki tarah taali baja raha hai?" And I still wonder WHY? Why do we have to compare...

its okay not to be okay Hello everybody and I have no clue how many of you opened up this link and are actually reading it instead of scrolling it down. If you are still reading this - hey there mate! its an honour to have you here. I know life is not always a bed of roses, it has thorns too! And incase you feel like you are walking on a path full of thorns and its hurting then trust me you can actually take a break and ask for some help from someone. While a lot of you may still be thinking what i am talking about? worry not im still here. Life seems good when it is all lit but in the dark times we all secretly, silently crave for a company. We want someone to be incharge of our back. We want someone just to be there and lend an ear. Yes,we may not admit to the fact that we need someone to reach out to us. We may deny that we are weak and we feel we can go through this alone. but shh here's a secret :- its okay not to be okay! its okay to admit that your life is da...

Hii guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wassup and welcome back to the most teen friendly blog D Imperfectionist J But guess what : this page is soon turning from the teen to adult. Didn’t get it,eh? Lemme help you here. Your blogger is turning into an adult soon sooner. So all I need today is bit “listening ears”. And and and before we get started, here’s wishing all of you a very very happy children’s day and a peaceful Guru Nanak Jayanti. Moving on, this is my officially last children’s day as a child because next year all that would be left for me is random forwards based on how the child in you never dies and the most important thing which people do  #takemebakck #missthosedays ###  * with some random cute childhood photo* But do we never kill the child in us? Think. Think. THINK. Yes, when I was this teeny tiny bit all I wanted was to do grow up, become independent, get settled and just work my head off. All I want to do was get 18 and do all the exciting things which ad...

FALLING OUT? With the trending times and “duniya mere smartphone mai” period, the gen-y has this so weird habit of crushing up on someone, texting them 25*8, get habituated to their company and ending up heart broken. The question today lies that when you fall in love its your heart and hormones which send you various signal. But how on earth are you supposed to know when to fall out of love? Like is there any kind of symbol or indication to that? I guess 90% of you would agree that there is no such indication to falling out of love. How can you fall out of love whereas falling in love was the toughest thing which you ever had to do. Finding that one perfect person and doing all that you could to keep that one person in your life forever. So when exactly do you fall out of love? I’m afraid but the answer is NEVER. Yes, exactly you never ever fall out of love once you fell in. You may stop liking the person you were dating with but you never fall out of love for them. There is...